Tsakanin Siririya Da Mai Kiba: Ga Wacce Tafi Kuzari A Mu’amalar Aure

Tsakanin Siririya Da Mai Kiba: Ga Wacce Tafi Kuzari A Mu’amalar Aure

Wannan tambaya tana yawan fitowa a tattaunawar mutane, amma gaskiyar magana ita ce: babu hujjar kimiyya da ke cewa nauyin jiki (siririya ko kiba) shi kaɗai ne ke ƙayyade kuzari a mu’amalar aure.

Gaskiyar Abin

Kuzari da jin daɗin jima’i ba su dogara da jiki kaɗai ba. Abubuwa da dama ne ke da tasiri, kamar:

• Lafiyar jiki gaba ɗaya
• Sha’awa da yanayin tunani
• Fahimtar juna tsakanin ma’aurata
• Abinci mai gina jiki da motsa jiki
• Rashin damuwa da kwanciyar hankali

Siririya

Wasu na ganin sirirai suna da saurin motsi ko sassauci, amma hakan ba yana nufin sun fi wasu kuzari ba. Kowace mace tana da halinta daban.

Mai Kiba

Haka kuma ana yawan tunanin masu kiba suna da ƙarfin sha’awa ko jinkirin gajiya, amma ba haka lamarin yake ba a kowane hali. Kiba ko siriri ba su da alaƙa kai tsaye da jin daɗin aure.

Abin da Ya Fi Muhimmanci

• Soyayya da fahimtar juna
• Sadarwa mai kyau tsakanin ma’aurata
• Lafiya da kulawa da kai
• Girmama bambancin juna

Babu wata hujja da ke cewa siririya ta fi mai kiba ko akasin haka a mu’amalar aure.

Abin da ya fi muhimmanci shi ne fahimta, kulawa, da soyayya mai zurfi tsakanin ma’aurata.

Shiga Nan Domin Karin Bayani