Idan Budurci Shine Abin Alfaharin Budurwa, Ga Abubuwan da Samari Suke Alfahari da Su

A al’umma, ana yawan magana kan budurci a matsayin abin alfahari ga mace.

Amma shi ma namiji yana da abubuwan da ya kamata ya ɗauka a matsayin abin alfahari—ba wai kawai jiki ba, har da hali da ɗabi’a.

1. Gaskiya da Amana

saurayi mai gaskiya yana da daraja

yana kiyaye amana a duk inda yake

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2. Kiyaye Addini

yana tsoron Allah

yana guje wa abin da aka haramta

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3. Ƙoƙari da Neman Halal

yana neman kuɗi ta halal

baya zaman banza

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4. Iya Riƙe Sha’awa (Self-Control)

baya bin duk abin da zuciyarsa ta so

yana da iko da kansa

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5. Girmama Mata

yana mutunta mace

baya amfani da ita ko raina ta

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6. Ɗaukar Alhaki

yana shirye don aure

yana iya kula da iyali

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7. Kyawawan Halaye (Tarbiyya)

ladabi, haƙuri, da tausayi

yana da mutunci a cikin jama’a

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8. Tsayayyen Burin Rayuwa

yana da manufa

yana san inda ya dosa

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Muhimmin Lura

alfahari na gaskiya ba wai a jiki kawai yake ba

yana cikin hali, tarbiyya, da yadda mutum yake rayuwa

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Darasi

Darajar namiji tana cikin yadda yake sarrafa rayuwarsa da yadda yake mu’amala da mutane—ba kawai a kalamai ba.

Kamar yadda mace ke da abin da take alfahari da shi, haka ma namiji yana da nasa.

Abin da ya fi muhimmanci shi ne gina hali mai kyau da rayuwa mai tsabta.

Danna Nan Don Samun Wasu Sirrikan Ma’aurata Da Soyayya