Dalilan Da Yasa Wasu Maza Ke Daina Jin Sha’awar Matar Su Bayan Aure

A farkon aure, komai yana cike da soyayya da sha’awa.

Amma a wasu lokuta, bayan lokaci, wasu maza suna fara rasa wannan sha’awa.

Ba lallai yana nufin sun daina son matarsu gaba ɗaya ba…
amma akwai dalilai da ke jawo hakan.

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1. Sabon abu ya saba (routine)

komai ya zama na yau da kullum

babu sabbin abubuwa a soyayya

Sabon abu yana jan hankali, amma idan ya zama saba, sha’awa na raguwa.

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2. Matsin rayuwa da damuwa

aiki, kuɗi, nauyin gida

gajiya da tunani

Wadannan suna rage kuzari da sha’awa.

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3. Rashin kulawa da jiki

tsafta ta ragu

gyaran jiki ya ragu

Hakan na iya shafar yadda ake jin sha’awa.

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4. Rashin sadarwa tsakanin ma’aurata

ba a magana game da bukatu

ana ɓoye damuwa

Sadarwa ita ce ginshiƙin fahimtar juna.

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5. Yawan kallon batsa

yana canza yadda mutum ke kallon jima’i

yana sa a fara kwatanta mace da abin da ba gaskiya ba

Wannan yana lalata sha’awa ta halal.

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6. Rikice-rikice da rashin jituwa

yawan faɗa

rashin fahimta

Idan zuciya ba ta cikin farin ciki, jiki ma baya bi.

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7. Rashin ƙoƙari daga ɓangarorin biyu

babu ƙoƙarin faranta juna rai

babu sabunta soyayya

Aure yana buƙatar kulawa kullum.

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Muhimmin Lura

wannan matsala ana iya gyarawa

ba ƙarshen soyayya bane

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Yadda Za A Gyara

ƙara sadarwa

ƙara kulawa da juna

rage damuwa

kawo sabbin abubuwa a aure

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Darasi

Soyayya da sha’awa suna buƙatar kulawa kamar tsiro.

Idan ba a kula ba, za su ragu.

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Rashin sha’awa bayan aure ba abu bane da ba a iya gyarawa.

Da fahimta da ƙoƙari, ana iya dawo da soyayya da jin daɗi.

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Tambaya Ga Masu Karatu:

Wanne daga cikin waɗannan dalilai kake ganin ya fi yawa a zaman aure?

Danna Nan Don Samun Wasu Sirrikan Ma’aurata Da Soyayya