A Cikin Mata Ma Akwai “Gwauraye”: Ga Alamomin Ta

Kalmar “gwauraye” a nan ba wai dole sai mace ta rasa miji ba ne.

A wasu lokuta ana amfani da ita wajen nufin mace da ta jima ba tare da samun kulawa ko soyayya ba a rayuwarta.

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1. Rashin Nuna Sha’awar Soyayya

bata da sha’awar shiga sabuwar dangantaka

tana kauce wa soyayya

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2. Yawan Son Kadaici

tana fi son zama ita kaɗai

bata yawan shiga mu’amala da mutane

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3. Tsananin Kula da Kai (Over Independence)

tana dogaro da kanta sosai

bata son taimako daga kowa

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4. Rashin Amincewa da Maza

tana da shakku a kan maza

bata yarda da sauƙi

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5. Mayar da Hankali Kan Rayuwarta Kawai

aiki, kasuwanci, ko burinta ya fi komai muhimmanci

bata ba soyayya muhimmanci sosai

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6. Tsoron Rauni ko Ciwon Zuciya

tana guje wa soyayya saboda gudun a cuce ta

ta taba fuskantar matsala a baya

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7. Nuna Ƙarfi a Zuciya

tana boye yadda take ji

bata son nuna rauni

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Muhimmin Lura

waɗannan ba laifi ba ne

kowa yana da yadda yake rayuwa da kuma dalilansa

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Darasi

Ba dole sai mace tana cikin dangantaka ba ne za a ce tana lafiya. Abin da ya fi muhimmanci shi ne farin ciki da kwanciyar hankali.

Kalmar “gwauraye” a wannan ma’ana tana nuna yanayin rayuwa ne, ba laifi ba.

Fahimtar juna da girmama zabin mutane yana da muhimmanci.

Danna Nan Don Samun Wasu Sirrikan Ma’aurata Da Soyayya